Maybe that’s your story or experience or maybe you know
someone going through that right now.
The question is, how should we prevent this scenario from being your story? And if
it does, how should you handle it?
It is crucial to know the particular shape and size that you are attracted to and go after your spec, let your partner know the shape and size that you are attracted to as well. Any issue you can’t handle in your partner, voice it
out and make your stand on it known to your partner at the initial time when the love boat is still at the
shore. Don’t start yelling and acting funny when the ship sets sail
in the middle of the sea. In other words, if you don’t like fat or increase in
body mass and size talk about it at the beginning when the
attraction is still fresh.
Also don't rule out the fact she is human and has a 99.9% tendency to add, especially after child birth, except when it caused by laziness and glutton.
Also state expressly the remedy that you would
both adopt when nature serves you the seeming inevitable which you didn’t bargain for. When she
adds some excess pounds or weight and you are no longer attracted to her
stature, talk about the possible measures to adopt, whether a compromise can be reached; at least agree on that
now!
Bottom Line:
Never
overlook any important detail or signal at the beginning of your relationship.
Don't think you can always get your partner to adhere to your terms when the
argument gets heated and matters get out of hand. Think ahead, start now!
Please leave a comment too, you might be helping someone.
Nice one tocsai
ReplyDeleteThanks dear sis.
DeleteNice one tocsai
ReplyDeleteThanks again,sis!
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